Girls Talk: Is Dating A Good-Looking Guy Worth It?

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We all like to look at someone good-looking. We all drool at them, we fantasize about them. You would be lying if you never wonder what it feels like to have a good-looking, gorgeous, handsome boyfriend/husband. I did. I always did. 

Macam mana la rasa kalau ada boyfriend/husband handsome? Untung la kalau ada boyfriend/husband handsome.

Persoalannya, untung ka ada boyfriend/husband handsome?

One of the thing about being with someone good-looking is it gave you an ego boost. There is something tangible about showing him off to everyone. something like "omg. how did you nail him? He's like the most eligible bachelor on earth! How lucky." Kembang hidung.

It would be great if only a few people—trustworthy friends, important relatives, ex-boyfriends—could see how beautiful your other half is. Unfortunately, that’s not the case, and there are lots of other women, women who are more beautiful than you are, brazenly flirt with your man. Oh you know how competitive, bitchy and catty women can be. Nowadays they don't seem to care if the man of their desire is single or not. Some girls just don't know how to respect a relationship. 

Yang tidak hensem pun ada orang berebut. Inikan pula yang hensem..

Being with someone more good-looking than you are can wreck your self -esteem and turn you into a lunatic, overly attached, jealous freak. Everyone wanted to be friends with that handsome guy, Girls fall at his feet. Every girl wanted to flirt with him. and guys being guys, said "she was just being friendly. You are being paranoid!" when confronted. Can you handle all the attention he gets?

Vicky Larson writes that men with more testosterone are consistently rated more handsome than other men and that men with more testosterone are 38 percent more likely to cheat. She also claims that the happiest couples are those in which the woman is more attractive than the man, rather than the reverse.

It's a topic of endless discussions with my girlfriends. As much as we loveeee to look at good-looking guys, all of us conclude that at the end of the day, we would chose to be with someone average/pleasant looking. As confident as we are, being with someone better looking than us in a way, made us feel insecure. 

Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder so everyone has got their own preferences. I might like a tan guy while my friend finds fairer guys attractive. And although i always say how much i like six packs, or some gorgeous good looking guy, at the end of the day, i would prefer personality over looks.

In summary, No, we wouldn't want our other half to be very good-looking. 

but that didn't stop us from ogling and drooling. Uuuuu...