You Should Socialize More...PANNNGGG!!

Remember I bought a morganite crystal that is suppose to enhance my relationship HERE?

So a few weeks ago, I went to the shop again to buy a Christmas present for my mum, an aquamarine pendant. Kim, the wonderful staff and I chatted for a bit while waiting for her to cleanse the crystals.

Then she asked me

"So how? Any improvement since wearing morganite?"

"Okay lahhh. I'm more calm lohh. Not always so anxious and agitated."

"That's all?! How about love relationship leh? Boyfriend? No one yet?"

"Ermm. No.."

"Maybe you should socialize more loh."

DENGGG.

And the other day I was telling Mr. HGW nowadays I'm sleepy before 12am, even if I don't have to wake up early the next day. I feel so NOT REMAJA.

And he said

"Maybe you should start to socialize more again..."

Aishhhh...

I know their intention is good and they are just suggesting but socializing is exhausting!

I'm by nature an introvert. Being around people is energy draining. Read about it in my previous post HERE

Everyday in my work, I deal with people. Layan perangai hanjeng manusia yang macam-macam. It's so exhausting to plaster a smile on my face while inside I've killed you in 99 different ways. Penat la hari-hari hadap perangai manusia yang rude, kurang ajar, no manners.

At the end of the day, I want nothing to do with human beings. I would rather stay at home and do whatever I want. Without having to pretend to be nice when in fact I wanted to strangle you.

And I'm only off one day a week from work and are most likely spent at home lazying or going to the gym.

No social life right?

But I would rather have no social life (by society's definition) than to force myself doing things that drained me.

Asking an introvert to socialize is like asking an extrovert to stop talking.

You think I'm lonely? Not at all! In fact being around too many people is making me lonely.

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