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Confession Of A (ex) Party Girl

Confession Of A (ex) Party Girl

Isabelle dan Angie (bukan nama sebenar)
Many people say things like "Oh, she's always clubbing, partying and such. Perempuan soSIAL."

Not wife material kata lelaki tipikal Malaysian.

Aww come one dude. 

We party sensibly and party does not interfere with other priorities in life like work, family, friends, or religious obligations. 

People go to clubs for many different reasons. 

Most wanted to chill and de-stress after a long week at work. Some for networking, some to socialize with friends, some wanted to find a hook-up or one-night stands. 

To each of their own right?

My PIC and I attend parties or clubs because we love to dance, people watching, and to some extend, fishing. 


We know what we should and shouldn't do. We know our limits. Over this short period of being a party animal, I've learned and experienced so many things and met few people that I would not have met on the street. 

Safe to say that my rose-tinted glasses are cracked. 

Words of advice: Mesti pandai jaga diri. Berhati-hati ketika memancing. People in the club just wanted to have fun so don't expect anything long-term. And most, I repeat most are married, engaged, or with a girlfriend in the picture. 


I have always thought people who are married are loyal and faithful to their spouse tapi dalam club lain cerita pula. 

Macam terlepas dari kandang. 

Oh and meeting these people, I've learned that some are sooo hardcore that they are willing to travel to Indonesia or Thailand to attend parties there. 


Yang lagi hardcore dan berduit attend Tomorrowland Festival. Being around with some of them, taught us girls a few tricks guys used on girls. 

I know your wicked ways, guys 😏

Learn not to judge too. Some guys on the outside looked so brutish and mean but you'll be surprised they have a sweet and gentle soul. 

Let's not forget Wingman and Wingwoman. 

Being our wingman means you have to look out for us. Protect us from creeps and perverts on the loose. And to get us the guys we are interested in. Wingwoman does the same too. But you need a wingman mainly to take care and look out for you.

Read: How To Be A Good Wingman

Some girls, yes, they are "SOCIAL" but most just wanted to dance and have fun like we do. 

It isn't fair to judge someone social/slut/perempuan teruk just because she loved to party. 

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