Skip to main content

Things I Find Attractive In A Guy - By Si Kaki Poret

The first thing that attracts me is his smile, not the abs. Cross my heart and hope to die. 
"Dari gaya kau, for someone like you, mesti kau ni high taste kan? Mesti lelaki yang handsome saja kau pandang."

 I get this a lot. Selain kena cakap jual mahal, saya selalu dituduh high taste. For someone like me (what does that even mean?!?), haruskah saya high taste? 

 I've written about how I prefer someone average looking than someone universally handsome and hot HERE. It is natural that we humans are attracted to something that is pleasing to the eyes but it's just that, something for the eyes. What matters to me the most is the heart. 

 Friends who have seen guys I dated would agree that I don't prioritize looks. Some even said

  "I don't know why you are with this guy. He's not even good-looking."

 To others he might not be good-looking but to me he is and he has got something that others don't.

 So what is it that someone like me finds attractive in a guy?

 1. Smile
This is the first thing that attracts me. When their smile reaches their eyes and are genuinely happy to see you. Nothing beats a smile like that to warm my heart and make my day. I think this is the same with guys. Most would say a smile is what attracts them to a girl. When you smile, I know you are comfortable with yourself, you are confident, you are friendly and I can be comfortable around you. Your smile reflects your heart and soul. You don't have to be extremely good looking, a sincere smile that lights up your face is more than enough. 

 2. Confidence
Nothings is more sexy than someone who is confident. Both man and woman alike. Confident enough to look me in the eyes and smile at me. Guys who are confident are comfortable with themselves, they can accept their strength and weaknesses and does not need to compete with anyone else. They know their worth. People who are confident have this something about them. 

 3. A Broad Shoulder
Some girls prefer bum, some prefer abs but a broad chest and shoulder is my thing. It's something to do with making me feel secure and confident that you are able to protect me from harm. Hihi. 

 4. Passion and interest
Passion in your job, in your hobbies or anything you do. People who are passionate about something inspires me. It makes you an interesting person and I always like to enquire what you do in a day's work. I get to learn about you and things that interest you. Indirectly, I also learned about a world that is different from my own. 

 5. Sense of Humour
One of the most attractive quality someone can have is to make another person laugh and not to take yourself too seriously. Who wants to be with someone so serious, grumpy and cranky when life is already hard enough? 

 6. Polite and well-mannered
If you want to see the true measure of someone, see how they treat someone who has nothing to offer. See how they treat waiters or cleaners. There's nothing more turn off than someone who is rude and ill-mannered. There is something very endearing about a guy who offered his seat to someone more needy or a guy who hold the door open for someone else to pass through. 

 7. How you made me feel
This is the hardest one to find. Someone we can click with. Someone who made me feel like I really mattered, someone who is genuinely interested in me and all my mundane details, someone who inspired me to be a better person, someone who really cared and not just someone who wanted to "own" someone. That is a real challenge. 

 So you see, I'm not that high taste at all. 
Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Others Also Read This!

5 Produk Kurus Di Watsons: Jom Kita Review Bahan- Bahan Yang Terkandung Dalam Produk

5 Produk Kurus Di Watsons: Jom Kita Review Bahan- Bahan Yang Terkandung Dalam Produk   Adakah anda antara orang yang pernah beli produk kurus sebab terpengaruh dengan iklan atau testimoni kawan-kawan? Beli tapi kenapa ya tak kurus-kurus?  Okay takpa sis, kita try pulak produk lain. Produk X ni orang cakap bagus, maka korang pun terpengaruh lepas tu beli lepas tu tak nampak result. Frustrating kan? Badan tak kurus pun, yang kurus tu dompet uols je. Produk kurus memang sentiasa laku sepanjang zaman. Kat mana-mana pun ada jual, banyak sangat kat pasaran.  Tapi macam mana kita nak tau yang mana okay, yang mana tak okay dan bazir duit je nak beli? Ha, kenalah jadi pengguna yang bijak sisturs & brother sekalian. Ambik tahu apa bahan-bahan yang terkandung dalm produk tu, fahami macam mana produk ni membantu untuk menurunkan badan.  Baca:  Kenali Bahan Lazim Yang Terkandung Dalam Produk Kurus Atau Fat Burner Barulah kita tidak senang terpengaruh dengan iklan at...
Post a Comment
Read more

3 Produk Meal Replacement Di Watsons

 3 Produk Meal Replacement Di Watsons Image: Unsplash/ Derick Mckinney Adakah anda sedang cuba menurunkan berat badan tetapi sukar untuk mengawal pengambilan kalori harian? Atau anda seorang yang sentiasa sibuk, sering skip meals , dan sukar untuk mencari makanan yang sihat dan seimbang dek kerana jadual seharian yang padat? Meal replacement mungkin adalah jawapan yang anda cari. Apa Itu Meal Replacement ? Meal replacement adalah pengganti makanan yang secara amnya, mempunyai kiraan kalori sekitar 200–400 kalori dan mengandundi protein, serat serta vitamin dan mineral penting yang mencukupi. Apa Perbezaan Meal Replacement & Protein Shake? Meal replacement shake dan protein shake mempunyai kegunaan dan manfaat yang berbeza.  Meal replacement - Bertujuan menggantikan makanan anda supaya ia mesti mengandungi nutrien penting (karbohidrat, protein, lemak, serat, vitamin dan mineral) Protein shake - bertujuan untuk mencukupkan atau menambah protein dalam pemakanan seharian...
Post a Comment
Read more

Deko Laman Kecil

Minggu lepas sis ada post gambar makeover laman rumah yang siap dalam masa 3 hari. Rupanya ramai jugak yang ingin mempunyai laman yang cantik dan kemas kan. Ye la, balik kerja stress petang-petang. Jadi kalau ada laman yang kemas, hati pun sejuk dan tenang je.  So uols pun bertanya-tanya macam mana sis buat laman tu? Ahh senang aja. Janji ada kerajinan, kemahuan dan sudah tentunya kena ada modal sikit.  Laman yang sis makeover tu adalah laman rumah mak weols. Sedeh nengoknya terbiar macam tu. Sayang tak buat apa-apa sebab lokasi dan saiz dia penuh dengan potensi untuk menjadi sebuah laman yang cantik. Idea untuk deko laman itu memang ada cuma proses melaksanakannya membuat otak sis jam. Tanah rumah tu mendap dan turun beberapa inci. Jadi ada ruang yang perlu diisi supaya laman itu nanti sama rata dengan konkrit rumah. Mana lagi nak tanam bunga, rumput dan deko? Sebenarnya sis tak tau macam mana nak mula sehinggalah satu hari tu, iols ikut sepupu sis, si JJ beli...
6 comments
Read more

Perlukah Meal Replacement Untuk Kurus?

 Perlukah Meal Replacement Untuk Kurus? Image: Unsplash/ Nature Zen Sedar tak sedar, kita dah masuk bulan Ogos, 2022 tinggal 4 bulan saja lagi.  Sesiapa yang berazam untuk kurus tahun 2022, sudah tercapaikah azam tu? 😋 Bila kita nak mengurangkan berat badan, 80% adalah pemakanan dan 20% senaman tapi percayalah, 80% pemakanan tu yang paling susah nak buat. Betul tak uols? Diet asyik ke laut dalam saja dan sukar untuk mengawal pengambilan kalori seharian.  Ramai yang cuba kurus dengan mengambil meal replacement tapi perlukah meal replacement untuk kurus? Baca: Nasi Penyebab Kegemukkan? Apakah Itu Meal Replacement ? Meal replacement adalah pengganti makanan yang secara amnya, mempunyai kiraan kalori sekitar 200–400 kalori dan mengandungi protein, serat serta vitamin dan mineral penting yang mencukupi. Macam Mana Minum Meal Replacement Boleh Kurus? Konsep meal replacement ni adalah untuk menggantikan makanan biasa anda dengan minuman rendah kalori yang kemudiannya membantu...
Post a Comment
Read more

Adults Only! No Kids-Allowed Hotels In Malaysia

 Adults Only! No Kids-Allowed Hotels In Malaysia Image: Unsplash/ Muhammadh Samy We love our children yes? Traveling with kids can be fun, crazy but undeniably a little loud and chaotic. So sometimes you need an adult-only getaway with peace and quiet guaranteed. My first experience of an adults-only hotel was  Mama Bella's Retreat in Lombok a few years back and let me tell you, it was the most refreshing hotel experience I had. No running, screaming, crying kids and all guest was just minding their own business, reading & lazying by the pool. For those who are looking to escape everything, including the kids, this list provides you 2 adults-only hotels in Malaysia  1. The Banjaran Hotsprings Retreat, Ipoh 15-minute drive away from Ipoh city and 2 hours from Kuala Lumpur, The Banjaran Hotsprings Retreat is a luxury spa resort built around the beauty of nature. Read:  27 Best Things To Do In Ipoh   With 44 Garden, Water, and Lake villas, it is  th...
Post a Comment
Read more