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Side Dishes Anyone?


Today is not my off day but I got off from work at 4pm so I'm home early and have the time and energy to write. Yahoo.

Well anyway, I personally know a few of guys who are in a relationship but is still looking for 'side dishes' if you know what I mean. 

The amateurs will just flirt but the extreme ones look for "fuck buddy (FB)" or politely put, friends with benefit. 

To their other half, they are the most lovable, sweetest and perfect boyfriend or husband a woman could have. So lovey dovey. 

Tapi di belakang tidak la girlfriend or wife dia tau si lelaki ini pergi menggatal sama perempuan lain. 

Apa lah perasaan dorang kalau dorang tau boyfie yang loving and perfect tu buat macam tu kan.

There is this person I know who is so sweet and loving towards his girlfriend but is still looking for FB. 

So i asked why not just 'fool around' with her instead of looking for 'side dishes'?

He said "She is not like that."

And then there is this another guy. So I asked the same question. 

He said "I don't want to talk about her. It's complicated. And we are far from each other." 

And the next day I saw recent pictures of them together here in KL. 

Why man cheat when they are in a loving relationship? 

Apa lagi yang tidak cukup girlfriend/wife dia bagi? Sebab boring? sebab suka-suka? 

The first guy once said to me "Buat macam tu baru la ada thrill." 

Oh okaayyy.This ARTICLE explains scientifically why man cheats. Another article on the reasons people cheat HERE. 

Well anyway, I think if you want to fool around, better do it before you are committed to someone. 

Kalau ko single, peduli la sama siapa ko mau fool around kan. Tapi bila sudah commit to someone, kesian ba itu gf/ wife kena buat macam tu. 

Ok byeee.

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