Friday Feels: People Leave, Things Change But Life Must Go On

Let's dedicate Friday to heart to heart post. Sesi curhat, gosip-gosip barulah seronok baca kan uols.

Sis perati jeee tau stats blog ni. Kalau cerita curhat ka, cerita personal bukan main mencanak views ya 😏

Anyway, sejak kebelakangan ni, tempat kerja sis asyik "hujan" dan "banjir" disatu dua tempat.

Sebenarnya sejak Covid-19 ni, hidup sis pun asyik "hujan" ja. Rasanya ramai orang diluar sana pun sama kan. Memang lebih banyak cabaran berbanding tahun-tahun lain.

Rasa frustrated, demotivated, rasa down, fed-up, homesick, helpless, lonely.

I'm very glad and thankful that I have a very good support system. Otherwise, maybe sis kena say hello to Tanjung Rambutan.

Covid-19 and the challenges that come with it really make us reconsider our lives priorities. Things that really matter like family, job satisfaction, or mental health.

And because of this, people are nudged or rather, pushed to make a life-changing decision.

Finally taking the leap.

They leave places that no longer bring them joy or leave a job that is bad for their mental health and pursue their passion.

Do you know that in these 2 years, a lot of people left their job? It's called The Great Resignation.

These past few months, I've had a fair share of people leaving. For a better opportunity, be with family, or gone to eternal rest.

I fully accept that you know, people leave and things change but honestly, it is never easy. And I think what makes it a little bit harder is dealing with it here on my own, living in isolation, away from my family.

Also, it doesn't really help that naturally, I'm a reserved person and I don't feel comfortable opening up to just anyone.

And it got even harder when my favourite curhat person, passed away in July.

It's hard. I'm not gonna lie. I cried a lot over the last few months. Those tears are words that I can't articulate. It is of sadness, loneliness, and feeling of abandonment.

My heart is toughened but it's also not so tough. Can you relate?

Anyway I get it, people leave, things change and life must go on. That's just how life is.

We just need to learn to let go.

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