Have you tried Tinder?
My partner in crime influenced me to go on Tinder a few months ago, seeing how miserable, unhappy and upset I was. She was telling me how she's always on coffee dates with guys she met on Tinder and never run out of people she texted every night.
5 years ago, people look down on those who go on online dating. thinking they are desperate, ugly, and couldn't find anyone in real life.
Things changed. it's the In-thing to meet people through apps like that. Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, WeChat, Beetalk among others.
I'm not new to social apps. I was on Wechat. Wechat penuh dengan manusia GAI (definition of LAME in Bahasa Sarawak). Nevertheless, I did find an almost decent guy. He is good-looking, he is sado (I'm sorry, I go gaga over muscles), he is case 4 in this STORY.
I tried another app, Hot Or Not. Super lame. banyak bangla dengan nepal. Errr.....
So finally, I tried Tinder. While my PIC is actively going on dates, most of the time I only chat with them online. Not solely for the purpose of finding a boyfriend or a husband, but more like expanding my social circle and finding friends.
Most of them were Hi Hi Bye Bye kinda thing and I did not hear from them again. Only a few I really talk to almost on daily basis and kinda clicked.
Many asked for coffee dates but only a few follow through. Takkan lah akak pulak yang terhegeh-hegeh kan tanya bila mau keluar, mana mau pergi etc.
You want to ask me out, you make the plan la kan.
I've only been on ONE coffee date. We texted almost every day and meet up probably a month after that. He was my age, single, non-Malay, and a Catholic.
I think my friends and family would be like "ALLELUIA cyn! you finally found someone decent."
Yeah maybe
Until we met and I couldn't find the chemistry between us. We were more like friends going on a movie together. He was still quite bitter about his ex and I found myself becoming the listening ear for his life issues.
I've only been on ONE coffee date. We texted almost every day and meet up probably a month after that. He was my age, single, non-Malay, and a Catholic.
I think my friends and family would be like "ALLELUIA cyn! you finally found someone decent."
Yeah maybe
Until we met and I couldn't find the chemistry between us. We were more like friends going on a movie together. He was still quite bitter about his ex and I found myself becoming the listening ear for his life issues.
Not that I mind but yeah..you know.
Well, at least it was pleasant and not a horror story like most people on Tinder did experience.
After the date, I texted to thank him. The next day he texted to wish me a good day and then that's it. He went quiet. Like Krik Krik.
During the date, he was telling me he was once on a date with this girl who he does not contact anymore because
"I have a thing against girls who eat with their mouth open. Plus we can't communicate. Her English is so so and I can't speak Mandarin."
So maybe I eat with my mouth open too? Or maybe he too like me, couldn't feel the chemistry?
Nevermind. It does not bother me.
I can always swipe right. Or left. Depending on if you have muscles.
I really go gaga over muscles.
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