Marriage: A Nugget Of Wisdom

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I was driving and my mum sat beside me in the car. So we were talking and the subject of relationship and marriage came up. Here's what she said

"I've never stop any of you befriending anyone. Even if that person is from a different ethnic or religion. You all are adult enough to make your own decision and be responsible for your actions."

"Don't rush. There's nothing to rush. Take your time, do some soul-searching. Find yourself first. Do what you wanted to do, go where you want to go. Why do you want to rush? Doesn't matter if you get married at 25 or 45, if it's meant to be, it will happen. Marriage is for a lifetime. If you settled with the wrong person, you'll suffer for a long time."

My mum is so cool. Unlike most mothers who constantly pestered their children to get married when they reached certain age, my mum is more relaxed.

I personally think there is more to life than get married, have kids and retire. There is so much to see and experience. And i've seen how people around me jumping on the marriage bandwagon and regretting the decision later down the line. If you still want to fool around, don't get married!

But well, if you have found the right person to settle down with and that makes you happy, by all means go for it!

Hmm..rolling in the snow in New Zealand anyone?

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