Tinder Dates No XX?

Sudah berkurun lama rasanya Cik Pandamanda Tinderella tidak mengedate Tinder ni. Dalam 6 bulan jugak la kot.

Bukanlah takde jejans yang mengajak tetapi kengkonon I thought I have found someone decent and I wanted to change, I wanted to respect this "relationshit" or person by not flirting around.

Ada sedikit kebodohan rasa disitu ye.

Cik Panda masih lagi la menswipe Tinder tu tapi chatting bila boring je. It's only for chatting and get to know friends. So ada la seorang mamat ni, A, who I matched with quite sometime ago but it was just a hi hi bye bye and so so conversation so I did not think much about it.

Then 2 weeks ago, he said Hi and we started chatting again. It was very pleasant chatting with him. I was very skeptical because he's so young! He's only 23. Freelance personal trainer katanya.

I'm like "what's this BOY wanted from me?"

Uols tau la kan, bebudak muda ni apa la dia ada, apa dia nak dari seseorang perempuan yang jauh lagi berusia dari dia. My past experiences with someone that age is not always pleasant. They are at that age still wanting to ~~fuck~~ fool around.

Tapi weols layankan je la kan. Apa salahnya. After all he was pleasant. and not creepy. yet.

A ni selalu ajak ngedate. Cik Panda biasalah kan selalu busy la penat la kerja la. So I always gave excuses. And he's always sweet-talking "Hey how was your day beautiful?" or "good morning beautiful"

Makinlah weols skeptical kan.

As it happens, the other day I was upset over this "relationshit" that I was respecting and some other things.

A texted me and I replied telling him to have a good day. His next reply was "Is everything alright over there?"

To which I replied "funny you should ask that."

And he said he just had this feeling that things are not rosy for me at the moment. Gituu psychic katanya.

So I told him what happened. And he offered to take me out for a drink to which I profusely refused because I'm not in the good condition to socialize and God forbid, a first meeting.

After all, I'm not going to give a good first impression with puffy eyes and bloated face, upset and sad.

But then he said he didn't mind and really wanted to help me to make things better. Even though I was reluctant but I agreed to go, at least I have someone to talk to. Tak rugi apa pun.

He picked me up in a loud, modified car and I was like "Sigh. Boys and their toys. What have I got myself into."

So we went to a middle east joint, apparently, his regular hang-out place where there's shisha (he does, not me). And we talked and talked and talked for 2 hours.

I was surprised at myself and how easy it was to talk to him. I don't usually open up to anyone and there he was listening attentively to things I've got to say.

I was in for many surprises.

So apparently, he is the son of a big-shot couple in the medical field. Son of a Tan Sri and a Dato but this guy is one of the most humble and down-to-earth person I knew. He wasn't even bragging about places he went to or his status. He was just proud of his parents, especially his mum's achievement.

With his life experiences, age is truly just a number.

I was pleasantly surprised.

And he wasn't trying to get into my pants or being creepy. He was polite, decent and pleasant.

So we leave at 2am, he sent me home, I thanked him for the good time, gave him a hug, and asked him to text me once he's home.

And yes he texted me to thank me for the time.

Hmmm. as with most things, it's too early to tell. Most psychos are nice at first right?

See what I told you about me being skeptical?

And who says you can't find friends on Tinder? Remember my BEST DATE? he's still alive, still very much suka menganjing and he is among the people that I can easily talk to and when all this is happening, he said

Ïf you ever need a friend to go for a drink with, I'm just a call away."

And that is like a balm to soothe the soul.

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