My friend requested me to write a post on how to reject guys who asked for you phone number. So apparently this Black guy asked for her phone number. She was too nice to reject and gave in. Ended up the guy called her more than 10 times a day but of course she did not answer any of his calls or text. It's like borderline harassing.
If you have been approached by guys like this, you know how persistent they can be. I once politely told a Black guy I refuse to give my number. He then go on and lectured me how as a university student we should socialize..bla bla bla..BS. I socialize, just not with you. Oppssss...
So anyway, how to handle these kind of guys?
1. Be very honest and say "No. I don't want to give you my number."
The persistent ones will still try to convince you to give them your number so your next step will be
2. My boyfriend/husband will be very angry. He's a jealous man and I'm a loyal woman. (even if you are single/unmarried)
3. Still insisting and become quite aggressive? Give a fake number or better give your guy's friend/boyfriend's/husband's number. Let them deal with him.
4. He still want to find a way to contact you? Give email address or anything that is easy to block later on.
I still find the first method the most effective. Be upfront. Most guys will get the message. The super confident, cocky ones will keep on pestering.
Sometimes I wish the attractive guys I fancy can be persistent like that instead of the not so attractive ones. Ehhhh??!! Ok byeeee
hahhahahhaha.. last paragraph tu yg best
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